Things You’re Doing To Make Your Cat Misbehave
Cats are known for their graceful demeanor and independence but sometimes display behaviors that confuse or frustrate their owners. If your cat misbehaves, it’s important to remember that these issues typically arise not out of spite but from a misunderstanding of the cat’s natural behaviors and needs. Additionally, your cat’s behavior may be caused by unintentional actions you have taken.
Understanding and Correcting Common Mistakes
Here are 6 things you’re doing to make your cat misbehave and suggestions for addressing them.
1. Misunderstanding Your Cat’s Body Language, Communication and Behavior
Cats communicate through a combination of body language, vocalizations and behavior. Misinterpreting or ignoring these signs can lead to misbehavior. For instance, a cat that swats when stroked may be overstimulated or in pain, but when this behavior is punished rather than understood, it can lead to further striking.
A cat may scratch furniture to mark its territory if they dislike their current cat scratcher or if it’s wobbly. Scolding your cat for scratching a beloved sofa or bed head can increase nervousness, which may cause more furniture destruction.
A further misunderstood behavior is counter-surfing, often resulting in the owner yelling and cats getting dosed with a spray bottle. Cats love being up high because of their natural climbing ability and agile nature. Punishing can lead to owner avoidance and damage the human-animal bond.
Urine and fecal markings are other cat behaviors that owners often misunderstand or find unpleasant and unacceptable indoors. Urine marking or ‘spraying’ is a normal part of feline communication. It can indicate that your cat is announcing how ‘fit and strong’ he is, or it can be a sign that he feels stressed or insecure. Another theory is that your cat is leaving a message for himself to increase confidence by strengthening his scent or to provide information on where extra vigilance may be needed.
Solutions
Learn to read your cat’s body language and vocal cues. Signs of contentment include purring, rubbing, slow blinking, and kneading, while indications of discomfort include hissing, tail swishing, flattened ears, and dilated pupils. Responding appropriately to your cat’s signals and innate behavior can help build trust and reduce instances of misbehavior.
Provide suitable, robust scratching posts and textures where cats are likely to scratch. Offer an exploratory vertical environment and remove leftover food, making the counter less tempting. Only use deterrents if necessary. Clicker training and praise for good behavior can reduce counter-surfing by teaching your cat an alternative activity.
Medical problems can cause spraying, indoor urination, and defecation outside the litter tray. Hence, it’s essential to get your cat checked by your vet. Keep all soiled areas clean, plug in a Feliway diffuser, offer more enrichment, play calming music, and provide ample hiding spots for your cat.
2. Failure To Recognize a Cat’s Negative Emotional State
Many undesirable behaviors in cats stem from negative emotions, such as anxiety, fear, or frustration, which are often unrecognized or ignored by their owners. Lack of choice and not being in control can also lead to stress and misbehavior in cats.
A cat that feels scared or threatened may show defensive behavior and vocalize by hissing or growling to signal their warning to back off. Attempting to pick up or comfort your cat while he is fearful can increase his panic and result in biting or injuries.
Similarly, a feline used to free roaming may become frustrated if restricted indoors due to a house move or if outdoor cats are present, which can lead to redirected human aggression.
Solutions
Identify and either eliminate or reduce situations that trigger fear or anxiety, as long as it is reasonable to do so. When you cannot prevent exposure to a specific trigger, have a strategy to manage the perceived threat. Cats love to feel like they have options! Whether it’s their favorite spot on the couch or a selection of toys to play with, giving them choices keeps them happy and content. Cats are natural rulers of their environment; they appreciate having the power to decide when to be petted and even when to strut around as if they own the place!
3. Intense Owner-Cat Relationship
The relationship between cat owners and their pets significantly influences problematic behaviors in cats. As the dynamics between humans and cats become more complex, it can be difficult to distinguish between feline behavior and issues stemming from the owner.
Some owners may feel overwhelmed by their cat’s attention-seeking behavior, sometimes describing it as feeling ‘bullied,’ while also experiencing guilt for denying their cat’s desires. This dynamic can often arise from the owner’s past trauma, leading to irrational decision-making.
Additionally, some owners may become overly obsessive, monitoring their cat’s every move. While some cats are friendly and can manage intense physical contact with their owners, others—especially those without outdoor access or those who are fearful—may feel threatened by excessive handling.
Solutions
Take a moment to reflect on your emotional expectations for your relationship with your cat. If you find yourself feeling anxious or overwhelmed, consider seeking support and guidance from a professional. Empower yourself by learning about cats as a species and understanding their needs. Learn your cat’s preferences and boundaries better. You might also teach your cat to walk on a harness and leash, allowing you to enjoy outdoor time together without feeling overwhelmed by inadequacy.
To Wrap Up
To improve your cat’s good behavior, establish consistent routines, provide ample stimulation, utilize positive reinforcement training methods to teach your cat acceptable behaviors, maintain their health, and offer them choices to give them a sense of control. A well-cared-for cat is a happy and well-behaved cat.
